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<p>最近人人都講PTGF（partime girl friend） － 女生將拍拖的每個活動如拖手、睇戲、食飯等等都訂定不同的價錢，而男生就用金錢換取「愛情」。雖說女生要的是錢，男生要的是「愛」，貌似雙方的追求截然不同，其實有一個共通點，他們都想以短時間獲得「快樂」。不過，這種「快樂」價值不大，因為重點在「快」而不在「樂」。速食愛情 vs 慢食愛情</p>
<p>香港人什麼都講求速度，以致出現「速食愛情」、「速食時裝」、「速食文字」等文化現象。而PTGF亦是其中一個速食文化下的產物，因約會過程只長約數小時。不過PTGF只是一種形式上的愛情，雖然將男女的戀愛活動都做齊，卻沒有愛的成分。</p>
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<style type="text/css">#foogallery-gallery-98 {display:none; }</style><style type="text/css">#foogallery-gallery-98 {display:none; }</style>PTGF的「速食」與經典愛情電影《情書》中的「慢食」愛情正好形成強烈對比，戲中渡邊博子（中山美穗 飾）的未婚夫意外身亡，她寫信給亡夫，懷緬過去。雖然她再沒有機會與已故的情人談戀愛，但當中卻盛載了滿滿的愛。</p>
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<style type="text/css">#foogallery-gallery-98 {display:none; }</style><style type="text/css">#foogallery-gallery-98 {display:none; }</style>快樂 vs 慢樂</p>
<p>PTGF整件事發生的過程都很短暫，女方得到物質上的快樂，而男生就獲取「愛情」的快樂，這種快樂是有限的，錢會用完，「愛情」亦會隨著「分手」的一刻完結，所以重點在於「快」，不存在內在真正的喜悅。</p>
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<style type="text/css">#foogallery-gallery-98 {display:none; }</style><style type="text/css">#foogallery-gallery-98 {display:none; }</style><img src="https://prd-cdn.jessicahk.com/files/love_letter2.jpg" title="點解連「快樂」都要「快」？ 睇經典愛情電影《情書》講PTGF" class="paragraph-image" alt="點解連「快樂」都要「快」？ 睇經典愛情電影《情書》講PTGF"/>《情書》中的女主角痛失未婚夫，雖然傷心欲絕，但是她透過寫信懷緬亡夫，亦從另一位女主角的故事中得到安慰，從而將痛心的過去化作珍貴的回憶，藏於心中。這種快樂獲取的過程很漫長，但得到的喜悅卻延伸得很遠。</p>
<p>PTGF之所以出現，是因為速度已經入侵了大家的生活，讓我們看不清楚真正要追求的「樂」。回顧過往的愛情經歷，你獲取過的是「快樂」還是「慢樂」？</p>
<p>Text: Tiffany Fung<br />
Edit: Joey Chen<br />
Photo: 網絡圖片</p>


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點解連「快樂」都要「快」？ 睇經典愛情電影《情書》講PTGF

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